Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Birth Story: Baby #10

Do you read the "Four Moms, 35+ Kids" blogs? If you don't, you should! Here they are:

 These moms, besides doing their own individual blogging, post weekly on commonly chosen topics ("How to deal with tantrums!" "How to deal with the laundry!" "How to organize children's clothes!" "How to get kids to sit in church!"), and also answer reader questions once a month. Being that these moms have something like forty children total, they are an enormous wealth of wisdom and information, and I have learned so much from reading these blogs the past year or two. I love them. Did I mention that I love them? No? Well, I do!

Anyhow, I thought you all might especially enjoy the birth story of baby Calvin, born over at In a Shoe last week! Baby Calvin was a planned homebirth, almost an accidental unassisted birth, and his mommy has written out her story - part 1 and part 2.

Enjoy, and congratulations to this wonderful family!

Friday, October 26, 2012

Diet & Postpartum Nausea

(Cross-posting this from my morning sickness blog, as I thought this might be of interest to my birthy readers!)

One surprising thing that I have learned in my studies of pregnancy and birth is that there are some areas of medicine that are unknown to modern doctors. With regard to nausea and vomiting of pregnancy, one area of which modern doctors do not seem to be aware is the phenomenon of postpartum nausea. I am not referring to the extremely rare phenomenon of HG that continues past the birth (though that seems to be similarly unknown), but rather to the phenomenon of residual nausea - minor nausea that persists for sometime (weeks, months, years) past the birth of the child.

The common perception seems to be that NVP vanishes completely at birth, but that was not my experience. With my first full-term pregnancy (also my one experience with true HG), I experienced bouts of nausea that lasted for various amounts of time (usually a couple of minutes or hours), and this continued - in diminishing amounts - for the first two years postpartum. At one point the nausea was strong enough to make me dry-heave, but the rest of the time the bouts were merely unpleasant. Because I was new to the experience, though, I was in a continual state of panic during that time, thinking that I was pregnant and that this was the start of HG.

With my subsequent two (non-HG) pregnancies, I also experienced postpartum nausea episodes. This past time, they were quite unpleasant, and quite frequent (multiple times per day).

Since writing about residual postpartum nausea, I have heard from numerous women telling me that I am not alone - that they too have experienced this phenomenon (whew, I'm not crazy!). However, when I have mentioned this subject to several different doctors, the only response has been a "You're crazy, lady" look and a quick change of subject. No doctor to whom I have spoken seems to have heard of residual nausea. 

This leads to two points:

- Whatever NVP/HG does to our bodies, the effects do not disappear instantaneously, especially in some women.

- This leads me to wonder what would happen to a woman should she start another pregnancy before the residual nausea was gone from the last pregnancy. Actually, I'm not sure I want to know, because it scares me too much.

HOWEVER, there is good news!

Being that my cycle has (supposedly) returned, I am now back on the VLC diet - I am now on day 68, with no cheating!! (Except for one day when I took a big drink of my son's lemonade, thinking that it was my water. And then did it again two hours later. Nice!) And....

My postpartum nausea has evaporated, pretty much completely! Hurray!!!

Score one for the VLC diet! For whatever the cause, it really works with nausea. I am thrilled about this, because the residual nausea was very unpleasant, and it's nice to be finally rid of it.

Thoughts, everyone?

And now... Have a great day, everyone! I'm off to go shopping, make cauliflower pizza, and organize family movie night. If all that gets done, it'll be a miracle.

Happy weekend!

Monday, October 15, 2012

Watching a Mama Achieve Some Sheer Awesomeness!

The following video is from the homebirth of a friend of mine whose baby was born three weeks to the day after our last. She rocks this birth! Check it out!

My first thought was, "Wow! She made sounds exactly like I did!" - which is just awesome!

This is birth in the very real sense. Raw, unvarnished (no new-age soundtracks!), up-close and personal. Women who have not yet given birth may find it a bit overwhelming, but it's awesome and inspiring at the same time.

Does birth hurt? Yeessss. But it is also the most powerful, transformational, and inspiring work that a woman can do, and it is utterly amazing to witness a woman in all of her power doing the work that God designed her body to do.

Congratulations to this family!!!

"We have a secret in our culture, and it's not that birth is painful. It's that women are strong." 
~ Laura Stavoe Harm ~